In a recent interview, Pantera members opened up about the challenges they faced growing up as metal fanatics. As children and teens in the ’80s and ’90s, they often dealt with judgment from society, peers, and even their own families. Being a metal fan, especially in more conservative communities, meant constantly defending their taste in music, which was often labeled as rebellious or even dangerous.
Rex Brown, Pantera’s bassist, reflected on how misunderstood metal music was in his youth. “It wasn’t just about noise or aggression,” he said. “For us, it was a form of expression, a way to cope with the world.” He noted how fans of the genre often found solace in the music, even though it was seen as something dark or negative by outsiders.
When asked for advice to parents whose children are into metal, Pantera’s drummer, Charlie Benante, emphasized the importance of understanding. “Don’t jump to conclusions. Just because your kid listens to heavy music doesn’t mean they’re troubled. It might be their way of processing emotions, just like any other form of art.” He encouraged parents to take an interest in what their kids are listening to and to have open conversations about the themes and lyrics in metal music.
The band highlighted that supporting a child’s musical journey, even if it’s different from a parent’s preferences, can help build trust and strengthen relationships.
